Never Say "This Is Your Fault" To Your Partner

Why do we react so differently to things our partners say compared to what friends and acquaintances say to us? When your pals are talking to you, you tend to skim the surface of their words.

Sometimes it’s really hard to keep this one in, especially when it is actually their fault.

You probably already know that pointing fingers isn’t going to help win your ex back, but lets stop and take a look at exactly why this is such a lousy strategy.

In my How To Get Ex Back course, I explain something you may not realize just yet. Your relationship really is over and gone for good now.

But that’s okay, because you get to build a brand-new, much better relationship with your ex. Part of that process is eventually going to involve talking about what went wrong the first time and how you can avoid it this time.

But that’s much, much further down the line.

If you’re still at the breakup stage and you’re talking about blame, then you’re not building a new relationship, you’re reliving the old one, and that’s not going to make anyone fall in love.

Imagine if you went to a car dealership and the salesman, instead of telling you about a new car, just kept talking about how awful your old car was.

That would be a pretty lousy sales technique, right? Yet that’s pretty much what you’re doing by digging up old, painful memories again and again.

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